Man, I feel really bad for my childhood best friend. She just had her baby (baby boy) a week ago on April 5th. Her husband who is in the military had to leave the 11th for Iraq, which is tearing her apart. As soon as she got in her car after seeing him off she heard on the radio that Bush extended tours from 12 months to 15 months, and the thought her husband is going to miss their son`s first steps, first crawl, first words, is just really hitting her hard. I really wish I could do more for her than talk to her, but what can I do? Maybe I can visit with her some time in the future and hang out with her, I haven`t seen her in years.